I can't tell you everything about flirting in one article, but I can get you started in the right direction. Here are 6 tips to help you flirt better. 1. Smile. This sounds obvious, but it's actually controversial.
One dating expert advises men not to smile too much when they're with women, because it signals "beta" male characteristics. Not smiling can generate a lot of tension in the right circumstances. However, the beneifits of putting a woman at ease usually outweigh all other considerations early on in the interaction. 2. Set things up to appear spontaneous.
Spontaneity is great. But sometimes it's difficult to think of things on the spur of the moment. And you might get tired of waiting for things to happen that match the lines you have ready. So why not make things happen that will allow you to flirt? Example: make it look like you're having to stop to tie your shoe right in front of a seated woman. Then say "now don't get excited . .
. I'm not proposing [smile]". I'm sure you can think of other ways to set things up to appear spontaneous.
3. Be confident. Don't "act" confident.
Just be confident. How do you do that? Well, get some interests other than women. Achieve something. Don't "neeeeeed" her to like you.
Other than that, being confident is basically just being comfortable in a woman's presence. 4. Lean back.
Don't lean in very often when you talk to a woman. It makes you look way too interested in what she's saying. You need to be the one with exciting stories and opinions.
If you make yourself more interesting, you can make her come to you. 5. Subtly imply that she's being naughty.
How early you do this depends on the situation and the woman. With some women in some situations you can use innuendo right away. And with others you have to wait for a more advanced stage in the relationship.
But eventually, you want her to take on a "naughty" self image. Example: Bait her by saying something ambiguous. Get her to give you a smile. Then say, "I wasn't saying THAT" (as if she's got a dirty mind). 6. Show enthusiasm.
Practice this at home. Read the newspaper and just try to make even the boring lines sound way cool. Then transfer that enthusiasm to the things you're saying when you're flirting with a girl. Flirting is very important. It's one of the most fun things in all of life if you know how to flirt well.
Keep working on it, and take every chance you have to learn how to do it well.
T.P. (PhD) wrote "Flirting Decosntructed". Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting quiz at http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/flirt_quiz.php